Job hunting problem – What if they don’t like me?
Preinterview fear about the interviewer liking you is always a cover for a lack of confidence in your interpersonal skills. Your problem isn’t “what if they don’t like me,” it’s “my communication skills need work.” On the other hand, if this is a post interview fear, and you believe the other party didn’t like you, it is your problem. Whether it’s a presenting or actual problem, it’s a single obstacle rather than a cluster or series.
Focus on facts, not feelings. If your fear of not being liked is expectant, you’re being Continue reading
Job hunting problem – Jumping from job to job
What’s your problem? Job hopping is usually your actual problem. Your ability to repeatedly search for and land jobs demonstrates you’re not afraid of job hunting and you’re confident in your personal skills and abilities.
If job hopping is uncommon in your business, then it’s likely an umbrella for a cluster of problems dealing with your being in the wrong industry or profession. Rather than looking at your job hopping as the problem, try to determine the reasons for the job Continue reading
